test: fixup node flakes (#39871)

chore: fixup node flakes

patches/node/chore_update_fixtures_errors_force_colors_snapshot.patch

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ trying to see whether or not the lines are greyed out. One possibility
 would be to upstream a changed test that doesn't hardcode line numbers.
 
 diff --git a/test/fixtures/errors/force_colors.snapshot b/test/fixtures/errors/force_colors.snapshot
-index 0334a0b4faa3633aa8617b9538873e7f3540513b..0300d397c6a5b82ef2d0feafca5f8bd746b1f5b0 100644
+index 0334a0b4faa3633aa8617b9538873e7f3540513b..8c047001ede7b66cab5146444fe2b48190b64359 100644
 --- a/test/fixtures/errors/force_colors.snapshot
 +++ b/test/fixtures/errors/force_colors.snapshot
 @@ -4,11 +4,12 @@ throw new Error('Should include grayed stack trace')
@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ index 0334a0b4faa3633aa8617b9538873e7f3540513b..0300d397c6a5b82ef2d0feafca5f8bd7
 +    at Object..js (node:internal*modules*cjs*loader:1326:10)
 +    at Module.load (node:internal*modules*cjs*loader:1126:32)
 +    at node:internal*modules*cjs*loader:967:12
-+    at Function._load (node:electron*js2c*asar_bundle:776:32)
++    at Function._load (node:electron*js2c*asar_bundle:777:32)
 +    at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal*modules*run_main:96:12)
      at node:internal*main*run_main_module:23:47
  

patches/node/test_formally_mark_some_tests_as_flaky.patch

@@ -7,10 +7,10 @@ Instead of disabling the tests, flag them as flaky so they still run
 but don't cause CI failures on flakes.
 
 diff --git a/test/parallel/parallel.status b/test/parallel/parallel.status
-index 913ae4b0b10a7d508d864539cf075fa9c2f9362c..985f1c0d0c0c6afc049bf1d89f91412ecf431215 100644
+index 913ae4b0b10a7d508d864539cf075fa9c2f9362c..0539a599e57d40c5da650dcf5ffe9a67763506e1 100644
 --- a/test/parallel/parallel.status
 +++ b/test/parallel/parallel.status
-@@ -5,6 +5,12 @@ prefix parallel
+@@ -5,6 +5,13 @@ prefix parallel
  # sample-test                        : PASS,FLAKY
  
  [true] # This section applies to all platforms
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ index 913ae4b0b10a7d508d864539cf075fa9c2f9362c..985f1c0d0c0c6afc049bf1d89f91412e
 +test-fetch: PASS, FLAKY
 +test-cluster-bind-privileged-port: PASS, FLAKY
 +test-cluster-shared-handle-bind-privileged-port: PASS, FLAKY
++test-debugger-random-port-with-inspect-port: PASS, FLAKY
  
  [$system==win32]
  # https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/24497